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I have thought for a long time now that good days were a thing of the past. It’s been so long since I’ve had one. It’s a rare occasion when my husband and I can relate and today was just one of those days. He actually shared a past experience with me this was a shock. Not to belittle it but it wasn’t anything major just something that he still held inside from when he was kid but still it meant something to me. We sat together and ate dinner that was so nice and he cooked for me. Then we sat together for the rest of the night and just watched tv and talked. He probably didn’t think it was much of anything but I thought it was the most special day we have had in a long long time. I made it a point to tell him how much I enjoyed each moment of it. I wish we could have more days like today where we can actually get along. I also came up with an idea I don’t know how well it work but it sounds good for me. I can not stand to be yelled at and my husband gets excited when talking about anything even if he’s not upset by the time he’s done he’s yelling. So I decided to try this we have a notebook and when we have an issue with each other or anything in general that we would write it down instead of expressing it out loud and then the other person would respond in writing. Our first comment was “this sucks” from him and I replyed ” thank you for the support I love you too.” So we’ll see how it works but hopefully we can work something out. I’m so happy with today I know it’s just a small thing but it really made a difference.
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